Thursday, October 15, 2009

PeeD Paraayi JaaNe re - continued

Read about Babar Ali of West Bengal who is the youngest headmaster of his own school of 800 students. His living is a shining example for Peed Paraayi JaaNe...

BBC had a special report on Babar Ali

By the way, NDTV, Zee and Star etc. have not captured his story even after BBC covered it... may be such stories of determination and conviction on ideals do not capture their imagination; Rakhi Sawant and her stories of mimicking motherhood is their type of story.

Here is the link to the BBC report:


On my forwarding this, Jai, my cousin's wife has replied her own story along with that of her Professor, which again is very inspiring.

I have copy pasted it here:

My Professor Syed Ali who lived in an outhouse, took chemistry tuition classes most of it for free from 5am to 10pm [30 students in a 10x10 room] everyday enabling many of his students become Doctors, engineers, Ph.Ds, etc etc. He inspired me to take Chemistry as my life!

He was a pious Muslim, a bachelor, who died at 72 years when I was in the final year of my M.Sc He ate rice, rasam and roasted papad everyday for his lunch and dinner.No meat please!Boys in the age group of 15-18, who are not very responsible took the tuition fees from parents but never paid the Professor-hehehe. This Professor taught in St. Philomena's college Mysore,http://www.stphilos.ac.in/.

Look at the irony, all the years when my Prof was is service, he was paid Rs.3000 as salary, and the day he retired, UGC proposed a new scale and Profs got Rs.30,000 and more. All his colleagues and students felt very sad for him[he didn't care] and gave him a huge gift of few lakhs of rupees as they respected his service a HOD,a nice human being and a great soul! Lo, he turned that money with some money he saved, into charity, which educates many children who cannot afford education in Chennapatna, near Bangalore[even to date].

He did not get married, as he said he liked someone and could not get married to that person and that was it! I loved my Prof so much so that my father feared that I will get converted to Islam. At that point I would not eat in any other Muslim house,but for my Prof Syed Ali's as he cared for me. He was proud[it is not important here to mention why, and bore you all] of me and went on telling my success stories to all batches of students like many of my other Profs who were all very proud of me[I am blessed....].

I made him angry when I took Chemistry in my Masters, as he could foresee that even a smart and intelligent person in non-it stream takes more time and hard work to compete with computer oriented fields and make a decent living.He was more angry as, I also had a seat for MCA and could go with it as it was IT boom time. Hmmm,I have not seen my Grand father[father's father] and my Mom's father had too many grandchildren to care for!So, my old Prof was my friend, teacher, grandfather .... GODFATHER......

I told him, I will study chemistry and make him proud, I will teach for free like him in his place......[He shouted at me, he knew I could be that emotional and foolish-at that time I did not know much about outer world, I just knew him]. It was very shocking for me when I heard about his death as I just had a nice chat with him the previous day and another student of his who was a Doctor told us that he had no health problems at all. Next day was Id-Milad and he walked to the Mosque, prayed peacefully, came home had Kheer and his simple food and sat in the chair and left me alone...... He did not have the patience to wait for my GOLD MEDAL and Cash prizes[ I was not very lucky to get the gold medal instituted in his name in my Bachelors- I was just in top 5, there was not one in his name in Masters-I missed his name on my Medal].

I did keep my focus and did well, got my Medal, Prize, Rank Certificates went straight to his house[ my father was very angry, he felt insulted-I could not help, My Prof was resposible for all the chemistry I knew!]and kept everything in front of his Picture.Other people from his community would not let me teach there. This is a majority Muslim area 90% muslims.

I started my journey of teaching chemistry [though I was already working for CFTRI], free of cost to all our friends and their families[ who were struggling to pay college tuition and special tuition fees to get into ENGG or Medicine....]. I had turned down, Indo -Canada research fellowship, just to be in India and help people who need it.I did not enjoy being a teacher in particular, I enjoyed teaching Chemistry as nobody could do it as I did it! I became a threat to all senior teachers.I started hating all that, in school level teaching, PU level teaching, College chemistry, Masters teaching, teaching IAS and KAS folks my study circle.The government Policies, delay in things everything made me think, I SHOULD MAKE MY PROFESSOR HAPPY, by using my chemistry for something better.By then, I had completed my Ph.D,our struggle in the family was almost over, as all my sisters got decently educated and employed. After nine years of teaching from 8am to 8pm [6am-set up experiments in the lab, go back and check after tuition - 8pm] and using all my holidays for doing research for five years, I decided to transition completely into research.

I am proud of what I am doing, I am proud of my experiences in life which have made my personality, I know I have a long way to go and I know I WILL, I know I try to help educate people who have struggled for knowledge like me, I love simple life and WANT TO HELP ANY KID WHO WANTS TO STUDY.

You are another true Vaishnava who understands the PeeD of others!






Friday, October 9, 2009

Nobel Peace Prize



Barack Obama - Nobel peace prize 2009 - I am speechless! Or should I be more vocal and say more now??

Words enough than action? Words are very important when one is in a visible, audible position. Words of hope, words of faith in goodness is very important is what is announced to the whole world through this Nobel peace prize.

Thought comes as words, words become action and action makes the world.

Obama - President of US - winner of Nobel prize - all with his words. The right words used at the right place with the right persons - Power of Positive Words!!
Remarkable!!

My thoughts on smile and the visuals we leave for many on many occasions is on the same line...

Yes, what we get to see, what we hear and the persons at some positions making some right sounds and giving some right visuals - that is what will work on the mass psyche!

Obama is one of the luckiest, chosen son of Almighty! I wonder whether he was vocal about his thoughts as a student ??? I wonder when his journey with "words" really started and brought him to wherever he is now.
Keep going Obama! Do better... do what you say and may the world be a better place to live for billions of people from now on!



Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Mind Games




Today is Karva Chouth. I saw a large group of super-duper-dressed ladies coming out of the bungalow next to our Hyderabad office ( it belongs to one big industrialist manufacturing a particular brand of metal locks).

These ladies have observed it very faithfully for their husbands.. what about those who are not observing, like the South Indian ladies? If that does not apply to south Indian ladies, how will it apply to not-south-Indian ladies? What about the ones observed by SI ladies and not by the not-SI-ladies? confusing???

Extend it further - what about those who are not Indians and who do not follow such tradition. In that case, are the stories behind such vraths, are they real or created ones to keep the ladies busy? How relevant are they today? I mean, when a non-SI marries a NI man and vice versa? Will she observe or not?


Tuesday, October 6, 2009

AP flood relief



I do not want to spend Diwali wearing new clothes and eating sweets when thousands of people in Andhra Pradesh have lost everything in the floods. Kurnool, Cuddapah, Mantralayam, large parts of Vijayawada, Guntur is under water. I am sure that a lot of middle class and lower income group will be in maximum trouble - they would not have taken any insurance - many would have lost their lives savings - it is very sad when nature devasts the complete area.

I know that Ramakrishna Mission is always in the forefront in flood relief work wherever it happens. I went to Hyderabad centre of Ramakrishna Math and enquired in the office whether I can participate in any Shram Dhan! They said that they do not want ladies to come for such work as they cannot provide them with safe place to stay in the night. They specifically do not take ladies as volunteers as they had lots of trouble in the past managing a mixed team of volunteers! Hence a big no!

I wanted to know whether I can do any work in the back office by way of sending mails, collecting donations and maintaining accounts etc. He gave a look at me and said that they do not need women for any work! I asked what they will do in case Sarada Devi herself comes to volunteer - he said that even She will not be allowed as they have had enough trouble with ladies!

He gave me SBI a/c number of Ramakrishna Math, Cuddapah centre for sending money for the flood relief work. I wonder now what I can do to do some real front-line work instead of just giving some money and forgetting it!





Monday, October 5, 2009

Smile please!




One full page release about the winners of the prestigious Aditya Birla Scholarship for the year 2009 in ToI or The Hindu. I like to read through the names to know the mix of winners and when I saw a very familiar name of a boy who lived really next door to us in Brindavan, Thane, I was happy for him and his family. This boy has done himself good by being the winner of many academic contests.

What intrigued me was - there was not a single person in the group who had a smiling face! After having achieved such a big contest and being one of the winner should definitely bring a small smile atleast to these young faces...

I turn the page and see another set of winners - this time - a set of 12 school children in the age group of 8 to 12 - winning some competition in the State level... again, not a single smiling face... all of them looking serious and to a large extent worried and troubled.

Now I started looking at the expression of anyone who is on the newspaper for a smile... I bet, I did not get a single smiling face, except that of Dr.YSR in some smiling and hand-waving pose!

My thoughts went to my cousin whose photos in various parts of the net-world show a very smiling happy face.. in real life he is a serious person who hardly smiles. I went ahead looking at the ämerican"faces in the internet and newspapers. They seem to have a standard rule that they should give a big happy smiling face if they are facing camera!

Even a not-so-happy-news given with a not-so-serious-face makes the reader not get worried!

In our country we seem to be giving the happiest news with the grimmest face! Smile folks, smile! At least when there is a happy moment, a proud moment!



Thursday, October 1, 2009

Dan Brown, Bhagavad Gita and Hinduism



Kubera Kolam, Shiva, dot inside a circle are some of the things discussed by Dan Brown in his latest novel "The Lost Symbol".

Serious Dan Brown fans should not read this book, as you might lose respect for him. He has lost the story-telling knack; he does not know where to end the story; how to take it further; disappointing.

I feel like telling him to come to India and go around the 1000 + temples in Tamilnadu - the standing ones and the dilapidated ones too.... and see, what he can come up with on symbolism and religion etc. etc.

I hope noone makes this story into a movie - that would be another boring one. On the other hand, the monuments, buildings of Washington can be seen from a different angle if this book is taken as a movie! Let me wait and watch!