Mothers and Daughters

I have recently met some pairs of M&Ds and I felt I must record my thoughts on this subject.

M&D 1:

M thinks that she is always correct and has trained her D to be a photocopy of herself. D's brain is totally full of thoughts of a person 30 years older. D dresses her age but thinks like M.

M does not even comprehend the fact that D has to be different from her and she has every right to think for herself and decide for herself and live a life for herself.

Doommmm........ things do not work with mind of 55 year old in the body of 26 year old.

M thinks that world has to understand that she is correct; she is not capable of comprehending that noone has any duty to understand her and think and live like how she wants them to be.

Problemsssss.................

M&D 2:

D is too independant and just pretends that she obeys her M. M knows that D is not correct, but is incapable of showing her love in the right way. M thinks that love and affection is in just preparing food and giving it in time.

Problemss............ D goes out of boundaries many times and blames everyone for whatever happens to her.

M&D 3:

M has made D her mental slave, all out of love. D thinks that it is best to be her M's slave than anything else in life.

M has not taught D that different people behave in different ways and it is little adjustment, little understanding, little sacrifice, little acceptance which all culminate in happiness at the end but lots of small and big difficulties in the beginning.

Hence D is encouraged to just walk out of her husband's place and be totally dependant on M and F along with her husband! They do not think that D and her husband should be allowed to live their lives the way they want it... the idea of "want" itself is so misunderstood, and M thinks that she is doing good to her D by just dictating everything! Funny........